A Devotional Reflection
When Love Refuses to Wait
Some moments in life reveal what love really looks like.
Not the polite kind.
Not the scheduled kind.
Not the kind that waits for approval.
But the kind that moves.
The kind that hears pain in someoneās voice and is already grabbing the keys.
The kind that doesnāt ask, āShould I go?ā
but instead says,
āIām on my way.ā
Thatās the kind of love my aunt lived the morning of after my mom and I were in a wreck years ago.
She lived so far out in the swamp that folks joked sunshine had to be piped in.
She was the kind of woman who normally waited for her preacherās permission before she did anything.
But not that day.
When she heard my voice ā scared, hurting, trying to explain what was happening ā something holy rose up inside her. She didnāt ask permission. She didnāt check with anyone. She didnāt wait for a green light.
She just said,
āDonāt worry. Iāll be there in a few minutes.ā
And she came.
Love That Shows Up
An hourās drive turned into twenty minutes.
Backroads turned into a straight path.
Fear turned into focus.
She walked into that hospital room like a woman sent on assignment.
She stayed by my side while they whisked my mom away to the University Medical Center.
She helped with my incision.
She came every day until I went home.
She didnāt preach a sermon ā she became one.
āLet us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.ā ā 1 John 3:18
Her love moved before permission.
Her love acted before approval.
Her love showed up before explanations.
Thatās the kind of love Jesus talked about ā
the kind that leaves the ninetyānine to go after the one,
the kind that runs down the road to meet the prodigal,
the kind that crosses boundaries, breaks expectations, and arrives exactly where itās needed.
The Sermon She Lived
Maybe thatās why the one song she gave me ā the one song I canāt find anywhere else ā was about:
- being an example
- living the sermon
- people watching your life
- āYouāre the only Bible some folks will ever read.ā
Because she lived that message.
Not perfectly.
Not loudly.
But faithfully.
Her love didnāt wait for permission.
It simply moved her.
Reflection Prayer
Lord, teach me to love with courage.
To move when You nudge me.
To show up when someone is hurting.
To live the sermon before I speak it.
And to be the kind of example that points others to You.
Amen.

